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Writer's pictureMonica Bergnes, MA, LCSW

Surviving the Season: How to Stay Calm and Centered Amid Holiday Stress


The Holiday Regulation Workshop isn’t just about “keeping calm.” It’s about developing a deeper understanding of your body’s natural responses and learning how to use them to your advantage. Grounded in the latest research on nervous system regulation, this workshop draws from highly effective approaches like EMDR and Polyvagal Theory, specifically adapted for real-world holiday stressors.    We’re not talking abstract theory or generic advice here. This is a hands-on experience where you’ll practice techniques designed to work in real time, even during the most challenging family moments.

The holiday season is here, bringing with it the familiar sights and sounds we all know so well—twinkling lights, festive music, and the aroma of favorite foods filling the air. But for many, this season also brings heightened emotions, especially when it comes to family gatherings. If you’re already bracing yourself for the unique dynamics of holiday get-togethers, you’re not alone.


In recent years, navigating family interactions has become more complex than ever. With the whirlwind of changes in the world, differing views, and even personal growth, it’s common to feel like the stakes are higher. We’re all more aware of our triggers, but that doesn’t always make it easier to manage them—especially in the face of old family patterns or challenging conversations.


That’s why this year, it’s more important than ever to have a strong set of tools to keep yourself grounded, present, and resilient. And that’s exactly what our Surviving the Season: Holiday Regulation Workshop is designed to offer.


This 2-hour virtual workshop will give you practical, evidence-based tools to navigate family stress with confidence. Whether it’s Aunt Linda’s well-meaning but intrusive questions or the resurfacing of old family dynamics, we’ll equip you with techniques that can help you stay centered and respond thoughtfully—even in the heat of the moment.


Why This Workshop is Different


The Holiday Regulation Workshop isn’t just about “keeping calm.” It’s about developing a deeper understanding of your body’s natural responses and learning how to use them to your advantage. Grounded in the latest research on nervous system regulation, this workshop draws from highly effective approaches like EMDR and Polyvagal Theory, specifically adapted for real-world holiday stressors.


We’re not talking abstract theory or generic advice here. This is a hands-on experience where you’ll practice techniques designed to work in real time, even during the most challenging family moments.


What You’ll Gain


Here’s what participants can expect to walk away with:

Grounding Techniques – Learn how to quickly bring yourself back to the present moment when emotions start running high.

Managing Family Triggers – Identify your triggers, then practice proven techniques to help you choose a calm, thoughtful response.

Breathing and Movement for Calm – Discover subtle yet powerful breathing exercises and movement techniques to regulate your nervous system.

Self-Compassion Practices – We’ll equip you with strategies to treat yourself with kindness and resilience, especially after challenging interactions.


And here’s something special: as part of the workshop, you’ll have the rare opportunity to experience the Flash Technique in a group setting. This gentle, innovative tool is designed to reduce the emotional intensity of a difficult memory, right in the moment. Imagine walking into this holiday season with a little less weight on your shoulders and a lot more inner calm.


Who Should Attend


This workshop is designed for anyone who:

• Feels overwhelmed by family gatherings or holiday dynamics.

• Wants practical, real-time tools for managing stress and staying grounded.

• Is looking for an accessible way to stay calm, even in the face of difficult conversations or old family patterns.


Whether you’re hosting, traveling, or simply preparing for holiday gatherings, these tools will help you feel more prepared and empowered.


Easy and Convenient from Home


Since the workshop is virtual, you can join from the comfort of your own space. It’s open to residents of New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut, so you can attend no matter where you are in those states.


Multiple dates are available, including a special Thanksgiving Day morning session for those who need last-minute support.


Early Bird Price: $85 until November 8

Regular Price: $100 after November 8


Ready to Approach This Holiday Season with Confidence?


This year, give yourself the gift of calm. Join us for the Holiday Regulation Workshop and walk away with a toolkit of strategies that will help you navigate family dynamics with more ease, resilience, and self-compassion.


Reserve your spot today, and get ready to embrace the season with a grounded sense of confidence and control.

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